Dan threatened to leave me last Saturday
I mean, he was drunk, and he says he didn't mean it. But we were talking and he said 'well, you can either help yourself, or you can not do anything and I'll leave'. And then he went and threw up.
I'm scared. I can't keep doing this to him, or to myself. I considered breaking up with him this week, just because I don't want to upset him. But I'm too selfish to lose him.