Dear Kitty,
I'm going to write about the two things that have been stressing me out a lot recently. Listed:
1) Fraser
2) Hector
The whole Fraser thing has been stressing me out for a while. We're always arguing, and I don't either know or remember where we went wrong. Maybe we've just drifted apart, but we're so completely different now compared to how we used to be. We used to be as close as anyone can be, and then this year it's all just kind of died. I don't know what it is now - somehow, every time we meet up or talk, we end up bickering over something stupid, or one of us will say the wrong thing and the other will get offended. Right now I'd like to go back to how things were with him in Fourth Form, or the beginning of Fifth. My problem is that I don't know how to approach him about this. It's confusing and difficult, and right now, it's really bothering me, and it genuinely makes me sad.
The second thing comes up at least once a month. I have no idea what it is this time - apparently, it's something I haven't done. Literally just haven't done. He won't tell me what it is. It's just that when this happens, I never know why and it confuses me no end. It also upsets me.
Right now, I'd like to go back to the beginning of Fifth form, when it was Fraser, and Hector, and I. Life was simple. Now it isn't.
Yours,
Francesca
I'm going to write about the two things that have been stressing me out a lot recently. Listed:
1) Fraser
2) Hector
The whole Fraser thing has been stressing me out for a while. We're always arguing, and I don't either know or remember where we went wrong. Maybe we've just drifted apart, but we're so completely different now compared to how we used to be. We used to be as close as anyone can be, and then this year it's all just kind of died. I don't know what it is now - somehow, every time we meet up or talk, we end up bickering over something stupid, or one of us will say the wrong thing and the other will get offended. Right now I'd like to go back to how things were with him in Fourth Form, or the beginning of Fifth. My problem is that I don't know how to approach him about this. It's confusing and difficult, and right now, it's really bothering me, and it genuinely makes me sad.
The second thing comes up at least once a month. I have no idea what it is this time - apparently, it's something I haven't done. Literally just haven't done. He won't tell me what it is. It's just that when this happens, I never know why and it confuses me no end. It also upsets me.
Right now, I'd like to go back to the beginning of Fifth form, when it was Fraser, and Hector, and I. Life was simple. Now it isn't.
Yours,
Francesca
Replies
Fraser: People change, I guess it\'s a case of both of you not understanding that you\'re not the same people you were two years ago.
Hector: He\'s done this before. You can\'t be expected to do something if you don\'t know what it is you have to do. That being the case, don\'t bother until he decides to tell you. Unless he\'s just meaninglessly trying to dislike you... if that\'s the case, let him. As long as you know that you\'re not doing anything to piss him off, you\'ll be fine.
xxx