been a while
been a while since I've written. today is day 51.
My niece got married this past saturday. She was so beautiful. Makes me sad that I'll never have that experience with my children, but happy that I was able to be a part of her special day. (my oldest is hell bent on ever being in a relationship... and I believe him)
The whole death certificate thing finally came to a head. I called the funeral home to find out the status of the cert and she informed me she gave them to the ex 10 days ago. Yeah so needless to say I was not a happy mom. The director agreed to call them and have them drop them off at the funeral home and she'd mail them to me. all so I didn't have to deal with THEM. well 10 minutes after I got off the phone with the director Brandon's fathers, wife started texting me. asked if I was able to pick them up she said no they were to busy. blah blah blah. so I told her just drop them off at funeral home. (as planned with director) well then she started in on me about Brandon's wallet. I could no longer take it. I BLEW....... and then I blocked her number from my phone.
Well that didn't take her long to get a hold of his fathers phone and started in again. I've never been so pissed off in my life. I told her she has his guns, his skiing equipment, his tools, why would they want what little I do have of Brandon...........
She then started in on what a horseshit mother I am. blah blah blah........ that's when I lost it.
I swear if she had been in front of me I would have beat the living shit out of her.
anyway. I told her if she contacts me one more time I will slap a restraining order on her. She told me I will have to answer for this one day. (cuz I called her a nosy bitch and to stay the hell out of it.) told her any amount of evil you try to pull on me will never change the fact that my name is on his birth certificate and now his death certificate.
I have to admit, it felt GOOD to finally put that nosy hag in a place where she should have been put a LONG LONG time ago.
Phone's blocked, facebook blocked. no more.
I don't know where this stands with his headstone, time will tell.
thank you guys for continued prayers and thoughts, I honestly don't know where I would be if I wouldn't air my dirty laundry and feelings here.
My niece got married this past saturday. She was so beautiful. Makes me sad that I'll never have that experience with my children, but happy that I was able to be a part of her special day. (my oldest is hell bent on ever being in a relationship... and I believe him)
The whole death certificate thing finally came to a head. I called the funeral home to find out the status of the cert and she informed me she gave them to the ex 10 days ago. Yeah so needless to say I was not a happy mom. The director agreed to call them and have them drop them off at the funeral home and she'd mail them to me. all so I didn't have to deal with THEM. well 10 minutes after I got off the phone with the director Brandon's fathers, wife started texting me. asked if I was able to pick them up she said no they were to busy. blah blah blah. so I told her just drop them off at funeral home. (as planned with director) well then she started in on me about Brandon's wallet. I could no longer take it. I BLEW....... and then I blocked her number from my phone.
Well that didn't take her long to get a hold of his fathers phone and started in again. I've never been so pissed off in my life. I told her she has his guns, his skiing equipment, his tools, why would they want what little I do have of Brandon...........
She then started in on what a horseshit mother I am. blah blah blah........ that's when I lost it.
I swear if she had been in front of me I would have beat the living shit out of her.
anyway. I told her if she contacts me one more time I will slap a restraining order on her. She told me I will have to answer for this one day. (cuz I called her a nosy bitch and to stay the hell out of it.) told her any amount of evil you try to pull on me will never change the fact that my name is on his birth certificate and now his death certificate.
I have to admit, it felt GOOD to finally put that nosy hag in a place where she should have been put a LONG LONG time ago.
Phone's blocked, facebook blocked. no more.
I don't know where this stands with his headstone, time will tell.
thank you guys for continued prayers and thoughts, I honestly don't know where I would be if I wouldn't air my dirty laundry and feelings here.
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so sorry you have this much drama .... you can always vent here,,, love ya!
I\'m so sorry...wow, I thought I had drama!!! I am so blessed to have stuck out the hard times with my husband...losing our baby was the worst thing that ever happened to us, but we had each other to lean on. I hope you find some peace.
Oh wow! The last thing you need is someone who has no business, telling you what to do. It amazes me that people who are not really related think that they can call the shots. Stick to your guns.
Wishing you love and peace.
Marlene
First of all, I am so glad you are here, venting, ranting, whatever you need to do!!! Life happens in the midst of whatever it is that has happened. DYSFUNCTIONAL PEOPLE are always DYSFUNCTIONAL regardless of what\'s happened....even the death of your precious son does not make a difference in their behavior.. I hate that you are going through this with them....your grief is enough to deal with..... I\'m with you, always ready to listen...((hugs)) Vicki
Yes the drama is so cruel on top of our loss. I hope that this will be the last you have to hear from them. Peace, Kathy