What I wrote in June remains so today, and further news from my sister indicate tales of deception and outright theft of my parent's estate that is very painful.  She has told me thing she did not need to, and the effect is that I realize my parents really had very little faith in me.  I am not terminating the relationship such as it is, but it is incredibly damaging as is.  The job at Mercedes Benz is not the best either and I am looking for better work.  I am very glad to be out of the hospital job that started this whole thread in my life, but things are still very rough.