6/30/2014
Monday goals accomplished. Signed paperwork. Got my things. Paid my bills thru end of July. Also applied for unemployment and found out about foods tamps. Dont really NEED those things right now, but better to get all the red tape done for if/when I do.
AND-a text from him asking me what's up...Asked how long I will be in my apartment and I dodged the question. I think he still thinks I am moving in with a friend here...but I'm not.
Says he is very happy for me...Probably, but bet he is also really envious-hahah
Realizing that I should have made this change after my father died january 2013. At least I am making it now.
List for tomorrow is to put the car in the shop for a tune up, get my license changed, and get the car inspected.
AND-a text from him asking me what's up...Asked how long I will be in my apartment and I dodged the question. I think he still thinks I am moving in with a friend here...but I'm not.
Says he is very happy for me...Probably, but bet he is also really envious-hahah
Realizing that I should have made this change after my father died january 2013. At least I am making it now.
List for tomorrow is to put the car in the shop for a tune up, get my license changed, and get the car inspected.
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Good job. One day at a time. A new adventure awaits
My only question-why do you communicate with him? In my case it always set me back and kept me feeling bad.
Usually it does and I go NC until something comes up and we have to communicate. Right now though, it reaffirms to me why I\'ve made this decision. Whenever I\'m having second thoughts, I get a text from him and it reminds me why this is important.
Once I move out of town the end of July though, I will be changing all numbers and he wont be able to get in touch with me...in any way what so ever. And there wont be anything left to communicate about either once I leave town.
Yes, you go girl. I am one of the very fortunate few that I have had zero contacts with that ex from the first day. You live the life you want and deserve. Hugs
Well done!!!
Keep this up, and keep the contact down to the basest possible minimum. Keep him guessing.....it gives him a bit of his own medicine, and adds to the pleasure of your triumph..
When the bankruptcy-which HE is paying ( a condition I made)- is over next year, he will need to get the title to my car to me. And there might be things he needs to let me know. I have a friend who will be a middle man. She has my sister\'s address which is going to be MY forwarding address, though I will not be living there. My friend will also have my new numbers and she will not tell him. My friends have all been adamant about not letting him know. Some want his name and number so they can have a \"chat\" with him..hahah. I only regret that I didn\'t do this after my father died. Once that happened, there was really nothing holding me here.