another weekend, no relapse. A friend was in town to visit, we always talk about sex, getting laid. he is on several match sites, as he is divorced. I saw the name of one, and am temted to look, but have not done it yet. I'm ustin a system I saw on another recovery site, STAR. stop, take a deep breath, asses if this is what you really want to do, respond. it's working so far.