Thank you all
I know I haven't kept up on replying to all of you wonderful people that have shown me so much support. I want to thank you all. I know I should have written back to each of you but right now I am not up to writing anyone. It has been 42 days since James Robert passed and I still don't have any answers. I never knew how long 90 days could be. Thank you all for you support and the ongoing support you have given me. It means a lot. Thanks.
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It\'s ok......please don\'t feel like you need to reply. We understand what it\'s like to be in the early stages as you are in right now. It\'s devasting. This is one place where we do what we feel able to do & are not judged. Dear sister of the heart I feel your pain & I\'m so sorry any of us have to feel it. Just wanted to say you are cared about & loved whether you reply or not. Hugs.....Vicki
Some people just read to learn how to cope and others dive in. Everyone is different. We are here to help you in whatever way you wish. (Journals give us clues so when we give you hugs, they may mean more to you than generic type hugs.)
Much love and I have to say I love your son just by looking at his picture in your avatar.
Leda
you can write when your head is a little more clear... we will still be here..!
It has been two years, since the death of my only son. I can be active on FMO some days and can\'t get out of bed on others. This grief journey is long and it\'s hard. Do not concern yourself with writing to anybody right now. You will know when and if the time is right for you. Just know that we all understand the pain and are so sorry for your loss...
((((HUGS))))....Julia
There is no pressure to \"be anything or any certain way\" on this site. If you write, that is okay. If you don\'t write, that is okay too. This site and these wonderful Momma\'s are here for whatever you need, whenever you need it. We are with you and each other in heart and spirit. We love you and we love your James Robert and we mourn his passing along with you. Love and hugs...Lynn
I too say place no expectations on yourself, it\'s soooo soon for you, only concentrate on breathing, resting and letting others do the other stuff! Hugs and love sent your way! I cry with you at the loss of James Robert!
And there are no answers, part of our struggle is constantly looking for them and our frustration at never getting any, viciously searching in our minds and hearts for something that could change this until we\'re forced to let it go and when we come to the realization that it was never ours to control. Sending you prayers, strength and love!
Thinking of you. No need to respond. We do what we can when we can.
Love and hugs, marlene