I think I am actually doing OK today. But, I still miss Josh so much. I think about him every minute and second of the day. Nothing I do is the same anymore. Last night I went to my nephew's tee ball game. It is hard even going to Drew's games, because Josh went with me and usually had a friend with him. After the game the family goes out for dinner. That is even hard without Josh. I finally had the time to go by the grave (I hate saying that). I have had a busy week and hadn't had a chance to go by. I feel like I am a bad mother if I don't go every day. I sat down on the groud and had a talk with Josh and cried. First time I have cried this week. I just don't like knowing my life has to go on without my Josh. I don't know what to do with myself. One more thing, John and I decided to have his stone put down next Friday the 27th. I love you Josh.
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oh my, it is a little hard to deal with things that we had our children tag a long to. please dont think you are a bad mother if you don\'t visit every day .... Josh is always with you wherever you are. {{{hugs}}}
If you are a bad mother than so am I. I don\'t go alot because I know Jake is not there. He is where ever I am or his family. I do go but not everyday or every week. You can talk to Josh anytime anywhere. And it doesn\'t mean your a bad mom if you don\'t go to his resting place. By even worrying about that sort of thing, tells me you are a good mom. Lots of hugs, Jake\'s mom, Kathy
I hate not having Chris here-we had him cremated as we knew we would probably not be staying here and even though I know he\'s not here I couldn\'t bear the thought of leaving him-so I have his urn-but even that is so bizarre-I just stare at it and remember the beautiful baby I carried in my body and this is what I have now-but when I am more rational I know he is not in that urn-his spirit is free and at peace-but it doesn\'t take away from the pain or the hurt-not yet-I can only hope in time it will ease some.