lonely
I feel really lonely and unloved right now. I miss my ex as a friend as well as a lover. Now she is neither. I don't really understand how she doesn't miss me at all. I am probably the only person who understands her. I know she has found someone new, but is that really enough to distract her? Maybe it is. It all just happened too quickly for me to process really. I miss her so much right now, i do wish her the best and want her to be happy even if its without me. But i still want to talk to her, be in her life. I guess i want reassurance that she still cares about me, still likes me, still wants us to be friends. But she doesn't want that. Women can be cruel when they decide to cut you out.
I don't know what else to say, i can't tell her these things, i can't make her love me, i cant even make her talk to me.
I don't know what else to say, i can't tell her these things, i can't make her love me, i cant even make her talk to me.
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My ex wont talk to me either.I hate that he doesn\'t care. but I am realizing this is his issue not mine. He is missing out. I know it hurts but she is making a choice she may regret one day. you have so much going for your! big hugs xo
Give yourself time to adjust to the idea of being just her friend and not expecting anything else, it\'s so hard but that\'s the problem I\'m facing now, I know that its still so easy for me to fall back in love with him because I still haven\'t completely fallen out and it\'ll hurt me even more which is why we couldnt be friends. It\'s near impossible to not feel empty after losing what feels like your best and only friend, but I hope you\'re able to at least acknowledge that you\'re a good guy and don\'t deserve it :)