I am back trying to conceive and am feeling completely frustrated again.  I am on my second cycle and it seems that everytime I ovulate something bad happens.   The first time we tried after the d&c, my husband had a root canal because he broke a tooth.  My husband, who is normally completely brave (he is afterall a firefighter and paramedic) has an unusal fear of dentists and was in quite a bit of pain.  You can imagine how not in the mood he was.  Now this month, wouldn't you know, I come down with the flu only 5 days after recovering from a sinus infection.   And of course, now I can't get in the mood (and I am ovulating again).  I even had the flu shot (but aparently it isn't protecting against most of the strains of flu this year).  Why is this happening?  Does God not want me to have a baby?  Why should it be so hard?