401 (k)

I finally have a real job that offers 401(k). There is a line for beneficiaries SSNs in case I die. I asked the man that adopted my daughter for her SSN and he has ignored my request. Tonight I asked my first cousin, who I grew up with, for her SSN and she said she wasn't comfortable giving it out.  There is no one else to ask.  The documents will have to be handed to my boss with no one else's name because I have no family to give my money to, or for anything else for that matter.  Today has brought me a step closer to orphanhood but maybe a step closer to relying on the Lord.