I phoned my boss earlier I had to know that she understood fully what was going on. I was totally shocked and appalled at her pulling me up like that and basically thinking I was pulling a fly one.The message that I left the other worker on Friday hadn't been taken across properly to my boss, my boss was told that my grandad was sick not that he was dying! There is a big difference. Now I see why my boss brought me in. But why couldn't she have asked me the full story. I was so gobsmacked at the time I couldn't seem to get any words out to explain what had happened! But now I think she understands. She appologised about getting the wrong end of the stick. So now she knows. I just didn't want all of my business getting told infront of everyone.  I told her I had really wanted to speak to her in person but that I didn't want to chance it, going int tomorrow incase she was too busy or had to go to a meeting and I might have missed her. I had to clear the air tonight, otherwise that would have ate me up inside all night and by the morning I'd have been shitting to go into work likely, hahah. So, its sorted for the now. I was at the hosp tonight, my grandad really isn't doing too good at all. He isn't even eating anymore. He is having trouble swallowing and is losing his taste in things, saying the milk was disgusting that he'd been eating the past few days with porridge, he isn't even managing that now.