I dont know why but God has hit me with another horrible blow. My grandaughter Tara was born 11-30-09 6 weeks early and passed away 2 days later. She was beautiful and looked healthy but my daughter stopped feeling movement the day before. They did an emergency c section and found out the baby was bleeding through the placenta and was not getting enough oxygen in her blood. Her organs shut down and had to be put on life support. Test confirmed their was no brain activity and she would need a liver transplant. The drs told my daughter that Tara would never walk,talk or feed herself. The decision was made to take her off life support. My daughter was devastated. How can you carry a child for 8 months and have this happen. We had the shower, the baby's room is painted and decorated for little Tara's arrival. This just isnt fair. She was 7lbs7oz so she looked like a full term baby. She looked healthy. All the other babys in the NICU were 2 or 3 lbs and they were fighting to live and winning, Tara didnt look like she belonged there and had lost her battle to live. My heart is breaking, for me and my daughter

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I am sooo very sorry for this blow. I can not even imagine what your daughter is going through. I have no words to help, I wish I did. Again I am sorry for this Lori. I am with you.
JudiB
JudiB

Lori, I\'m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful little angel she is. I do believe she is in Bruce\'s arms too. My heart goes out to all of you as you find your way through yet another heart breaking time. My prayers are with you all, friend. Judi
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Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your daughter are in my prayers. There are no words that can ease the pain. Please just know that all of us here at DS care and are here for you.
Community Leadermarjoe
marjoe

Lori - I am so very sorry for the loss of your granddaughter Tara - you and your daughter are in my prayers. There are no words. Hugs, Marsha
Loriluvsbruce
Loriluvsbruce

Thank you all so much. I know I will heal again with the love from all of you.
Luv and hugs, Lori
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I am so sorry, my friend..................
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Lori..I was reading your profile and then saw that you had lost your grand daughter...I am so very sorry for you and your family..my heart goes out to you all...you are in my prayers...life just doesn\'t make any sense...hugs
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Lori...there are NO words that can comfort you right now...this has to be totally horrible for all of you to go thru. Please just KNOW that we have came to know you & love you...when you hurt...WE hurt.....
saying many prayers for you tonight...
Jeanne