I dont know why but God has hit me with another horrible blow. My grandaughter Tara was born 11-30-09 6 weeks early and passed away 2 days later. She was beautiful and looked healthy but my daughter stopped feeling movement the day before. They did an emergency c section and found out the baby was bleeding through the placenta and was not getting enough oxygen in her blood. Her organs shut down and had to be put on life support. Test confirmed their was no brain activity and she would need a liver transplant. The drs told my daughter that Tara would never walk,talk or feed herself. The decision was made to take her off life support. My daughter was devastated. How can you carry a child for 8 months and have this happen. We had the shower, the baby's room is painted and decorated for little Tara's arrival. This just isnt fair. She was 7lbs7oz so she looked like a full term baby. She looked healthy. All the other babys in the NICU were 2 or 3 lbs and they were fighting to live and winning, Tara didnt look like she belonged there and had lost her battle to live. My heart is breaking, for me and my daughter

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deleted_user
deleted_user

Oh my God, I\'m so, so sorry. Sue
Glenda
Glenda

I am so sorry~Words can not stop the pain for your daughter~death is always hard...but the babies some harder than all,,,
alicea
alicea

I AM SO SORRY, I am in total shock right now.... She is just beautiful, I know NO words can take away you and your family\'s pain right now, I just have to believe that she is in Bruce\'s arms right now.... Here for you, and again, I am SO SORRY.... Hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Community Leadercliffskat
cliffskat

Oh Lori, I am so very sorry for you and your family ... words fail me... please know you and yours are in my sincere prayers and that I\'m sending Much Love and Many Big Hugs your way... Martha
Community LeaderShrn
Shrn

What a beautiful little girl and what a tragic loss for your entire family. Understanding this loss is impossible. There are no words to help you right now so I just leave you with feelings of love and prayers. Sharon
deleted_user
deleted_user

Lori, I dont know what to say. I am so sorry for your loss. What a gorgeous baby. My prayers are with you and your family.
laurabp
laurabp

I am so sorry. I know there is nothing I can say to make it better. Know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and family. laurabp
DeniseAP
DeniseAP

So sorry for your loss. It is so hard losing a loved one, but losing a baby is especially hard. My thoughts are with you and your family. Denise
KipB
KipB

Lori, you and little Tara are in my prayers. Kip.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Wow, so sorry to hear this. We are all praying for you here!
annsullivan
annsullivan

I am so very sorry - please tell your daughter my heart goes out to her & ask her to look into joining For Moms Only (FMO) her at daily strength. I know it has helped me tremendously...Hugs, Ann
missulance
missulance

Lori, I am so very sorry for you and your family. What a beautiful little angel. There just aren\'t any words to take away the pain. My heart breaks for all of you. Praying for you and your family. Denise
pneylan
pneylan

Lori, I\'m so shocked and so saddened for you all. There are no words really but know my thoughts are with you. Patrick
deleted_user
deleted_user

Oh Lori! Words are not made to easy this kind of heartbreak, IMHO!! You, your daughter, Tara, and the rest of your family are in my prayers. Giant hugs from OKC!! Cindi