wtf
so i book us a holiday,i don't realize its the same week as my partners family annual holiday to a holiday camp not far from us,my partner goes every year stays for two nights then goes over for days as well. the reason i didn't realize is i didn't bloody know the dates of this annual family holiday. but i'm accused of booking our holiday on the same dates on purpose . and her mum wanted me to cancel or move the dates of our holiday,but she didnt ask me she went behind my back and asked my partner but my partner told her i couldnt as i had already paid for it. the pair of them hatched a plan to try and "catch me out" that i had booked the same week on purpose. i am so hurt by this ,hurt that my partner would had asked me to cancel if i hadnt paid for our holiday already,actually she would not had asked she would had told me,so she would rather me miss out on a holiday i was looking forward so she could spend time with her family. at this point i may add just 3 weeks after this annual family holiday she going abroad with some more family members for 9 days. i wasn't invited which hurt. then about 2 weeks after they come back my partner and i are going to one of her famlies weddings which will be two days more she will be spending with her family. yet her and her mother make out i'm in the wrong. i'm pissed off . we talked about getting married but again it was all about her family,she doesnt want it in this nice hotel because the rooms are too expensive for her family to stay in overnight. she wants it at another venue that has this cheap travelodge so her family can stay there and we can on our wedding night.these places don't do bridal suites. the nice hotel i wanted have a bridal suite but that doesnt matter as long as her family have cheap accommodation. i suggested we still have the nice hotel but her family find cheap accommodation close by,but no she says they won't be able to enjoy a drink and she will end up taking them all back to where they are staying on our wedding night. i suggested them getting taxi's but no she said that would cost them too much. i just wanted us to plan our wedding for us,not her family . so now i'm thinking very seriously about things,if her family are dominating our life now,even trying to plan for our wedding,what will it be like after we are married. i know i can't keep taking being hurt by my partner. she knows i get upset when she always puts her family before me,she knows why. but keeps on doing it,which tells me she can't care about my feelings.
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