Today
Today I did some long hard thinking since my husband passed away. I do not want to pass on and leave everything in the air. I want to have everything settled when I pass. So I have one life insurance policy and that also covers accident. So I can go up to the cemetery where my in laws are and set up my arrangements the way I want them. I do want to be cremated. I know this sounds kind of dark and it sounds like I am depressed. Well, I am sad my husband is gone, but I know I have to move forward and make sure my pets are taken care of. I am a little scared for the future but I know I will have things my way when my time here is done. I learned something from my mother in law and that was to have insurance and do things your way not everybody else's. I had to listen to my father in law for my husbands service. I am not going to have someone else pay for my service it will come from my insurance.
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Its \"funny\" how we wake up once a tragedy happens. I am pretty much working on the same thing, buying a life insurance and making sure everybody else around me does the same.
Thou I dont think we should be worried about this now, instead, we should be trying to take care of ourselves and getting by each day.. somehow there is a sense of urgency.. like tomorrow is not a guarantee. :/
There is no urgency.. I am just trying to make sure my family does not have to pay for my service. I have had good days and very dark days. I am just trying to make sure in case of a sudden death everything is covered. I have a lot of animals that I have to consider as well. You and I do have something in common we both lost our husbands to sudden death and we are both relatively young too. I went though Met Life if you are still looking.