3/25/2013
Today I am feeling much much much better. I stopped using the hormone stuff so it might be that. But also I changed my mind about something and I really think that's why. My ex's next wife is moving here in a few months. Going to be impossible to avoid them. I had decided to just treat them both as strangers I'd never met. This morning I realized how hard it would be to do that on a continual basis. I decided instead to be civil and let it go at that. Immediatley I felt better. Now I don't agonize over the thought of running in to them, etc. Unbelievable how much better I feel!
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Now that you\'ve made a decision on how to handle the ex and his next wife you will feel much better. It\'s good that you thought this through and have an idea how you will handle this. It\'s the surprises that sometimes do us in.
yes, I realized if I was gonna do the \"stranger\" thing, I\'d worry every time I stuck my head out the door. Now that I\'m not going to do that, I dont think it will bother me as much. Still gonna hurt the first few times I guess. But I won\'t be so obssessed with the situation.