3/17 update -- the day

Accidentally fell asleep this morning. Was awakedned my phone; It was the credit union, asking me of I wanted to let the scheduled bills FROM THE WRONG ACCOUNT, and overdrawing it, to go. These were scheduled from the old joint acount, but I had thought (in their upgraded billpay service) that they WOULDN'T go -- I had checked them. They had datees, but no amts, and I had set the dates far in the future just in case... I had thought. (Turns out I was looking at the page where you set up payments, nott scheduled payments.) I figured w/o an amount they would just get kicked out. Well, no, the new system has "pending transactions" hidden way down the page in only a text link in stead of a button, and to delete recurring payments, you have to delete the whole fukkin payee, and THAT isn't clear, or how to do it. So spent the next 5-6 hours trying to fix the damage, moving money over to make cover the OD and bills, (cos they bills are mine and shouldn't have come out of the joint acct) and trying to stop all bills.Mentally and emotionally exhausting. 
Coulden't stay awake, had a little nap early evening and when I woke, I couldn't move for ~45 mins. Arms and legs just felt like the were 1000 lbs. Couldn't even open my eyes unil a back spasm hit me, but is was a struggle to kepp them open. anotheer 15 mins to move 1 arm....
Totally wiped out AGAIN...