S*** hit the fan so too speak. My younger brother has found out that my Mother had been cheating on my Dad. My Dad doesn't know about my Mom cheating though.So needless to say my Mother and Brother have been going at it and there was a huge fight. My Mother being the person she is can't have anyone having any info on her so she has threaten to send my brother away. Which has pissed me off and so I started argueing with her and have hung up on her more than once. She had my Dad call and I hung up on him after telling him that there is more too this story than he knows and my Mother better really think about how she is handling things if she doesn't wants things blowing up in her face.  Of course after I started calming down I called to apologize to my Dad and he won't answer his phone. I feel bad. After all this I still was trying to protect my Mother and I didn't want her sercet to get out. Why would I try to protect her. The relationship I have with my Mother is so abusive. My guess is that she is going to turn this whole mess into her being the victim and she will distance her self from me. The thing that scares me is that the last time we got into a huge fight shortly after that the PA's started so I've been watching my P's and Q's with her. But I guess enough is enough.  Turly I should just distance myself from her which would mean my Dad as well and my younger brothers who still live with my parents. What am I going to do??  I've never really had her support for anything and she really isn't the greatest Mother. I've always been the Mother in the relationship so I guess this will be good. Perhaps with distance I can focus on myself.  My grandparents are going to be pretty upset with me as well and probably distance them selves from me too. Maybe not. I'm pretty close to my Grandma.  Maybe distance might not be such a bad thing. It will bring alot of change . Change can sometimes be good!!