I guess I let too much out of the bag. I came to realize that I had to be mindful of what I would say about PA's because I don't have understanding people in my life and I know this.I was my own support group for quiet awhile. Well I joined DS and another support group and found understanding people well as great as that is I have started to get a false sense of  security of the people in my life. I started to mention things to my Hubby which was a big mistake and now I think he's at a point where he doesn't know what too do. For example the new house that we may or may not buy, we found a house we like, we have already put in a offer, had an inspection, and are waiting for an approval from our mortgage company.That would mean that we are pretty intrested in buying this house you would think. Well not my hubby he intrested in another house knowing full well that the mortgage we are approved for is only for the other house not the new one. I don't know what his problem is. He keeps going back and forth. But like I said I told him too much I told I was afarid to move even though I know we need to move and I think really intsead of having second thought about the house he's really having second thoughts about us. I can't say that I blame it's hard too be with someone who has PA's. I really think a person is hard pressed too find someone who will be there for them. Supportive people are hard to find. He really has never been supportive thru anything though. It's begginning to make me bitter I'm too young too be bitter!! Oh well!!