Well the old hubby has changed his mind again about buying a house. We have been going back and forth about buying a house for a while now. We  finally found a house and got as far a making a down payment and we're trying to set up an inspection and now he changed his mind again. At first I was pissed when he began flip flopping about this house which this all started a few weeks ago, than  I was upset about not being able to be on the mortgage and not having my name on the house but I got over it.  I decided to put that behind me because after all if you can't change a situation you can change your attitude towards it. But somehow I kept myself distance from the whole thing not turly believing we were going to buy a house and than we found this one and too be honest I was not overly happy about the house I liked it  but I didn't love it but my hubby seemed to love it so I thought I would just agree to buy after looking at 42 houses. Well anyhow my hubby told me this morning before leaving for work that he doesn't want the house anymore. He wants to look in another city for a bigger house keeping in mind this house is already bigger. I think he is just always going to find some problem with any house I've already distance myself from the whole thing. It's a trick I've learned with the anxiety. I guess one day he might make up his mind. It does suck though I was already considering paint colors.