Well I could kill DH! First while we were in there yesterday, after the NP told us about his sperm he chooses to tell me that sil's husband has bad swimmers. Like I really wanted to know that when we are getting ready for our IUI!! Than after I asked when he spoke to her and it was on Wednesday and asked did she know we were having this done. He replies no! Okay so I'm not as upset but than this morning I was looking at his phone, which I always do and he knows it, I find a text to her that says don't tell anyone. She replies my lips are sealed, I hope it works!! Really he lied to me!!!
It wouldn't make me so mad but she thinks we are going through the same thing when clearly we are not. She has not had the miscarriage, or been ttc for 2 years. For God's sake they just had a semen analysis!! She has made this intom a competition to have the first grandkid first!! I know that he doesn't have a lot of people to talk to about this but why would he lie abnout it?!
So now how do I come out and tell him, look I know you told her and that's fine but you lied to me?! I mean I don't like she knows what we had done, I didn't even tell my family. I don't want to have face them if it doesn't and explain that all to them. Maybe I'm just crazy! So what a fun Friday!!
It wouldn't make me so mad but she thinks we are going through the same thing when clearly we are not. She has not had the miscarriage, or been ttc for 2 years. For God's sake they just had a semen analysis!! She has made this intom a competition to have the first grandkid first!! I know that he doesn't have a lot of people to talk to about this but why would he lie abnout it?!
So now how do I come out and tell him, look I know you told her and that's fine but you lied to me?! I mean I don't like she knows what we had done, I didn't even tell my family. I don't want to have face them if it doesn't and explain that all to them. Maybe I'm just crazy! So what a fun Friday!!
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