Okay so I guess that this whole thing with his family is probably always going to be something that I will have to deal with. His sister has made having a kid into a competition and I don't like that at all. I mean we have been married for 3 years and them 1 year!! So how is that fair that they can just think they get married and get a kid?! I know that is very selfish but she never thought about that when she told me we have been trying since we got married (in sept. and it's nov.) and we are in the same boat as you, (having problems)! I mean you have been trying for 2 months and you have problems. By that time we had miscarried for sure once but possibly twice! So I kept my mouth shut and didn't say anything. That started me distancing myself from her and not telling her everything. How could I, she already thought that we had the same problem and she didn't have a clue.
So here is the new problem that I will have to deal with, how do I move forward and try to include her in my life without the baby thing being the only thing she wants to talk about? I know it's not like it use to be and yes I would like to be closer with her but I think that could come with some rules. I know that she won't agree to that. She has stated that everything else is just surface stuff and pretty much doesn't matter. So nothing else in our lives matters but having a kid! I would like to think that we would have more to talk about in our lives other than the fact that we can't have kids right now!!