i got my wisdom teeth yanked today and to make me feel better my mum took me out for some soup.  we got to talking and she asked me if it would be okay to have the family christmas at my place.  of course i said okay, i would love to have my family with me on the one day that no one fights.  and then i could learn how to cook turkey, and i would have someone to decorate for.  the only thing is, do i tell my sister shes not welcome?  do i chance ruining others holidays or my own?  i mean, her kids will be there, and she might be on the road to recovery at that time.  i dont want her there, but should i just bite the bullet and give her the a-ok?   arg...i just dont know...