I've done it.I've gotten to the end.I can now contact the girl. These weeks have gone by, and I've had no contact with her— except for a single e-mail I sent telling her that I wasn't ready to communicate with her and that I would contact her when I was. And so, I'm ending with the slider at 95%.Job well-done :-).  And yet... I don't know as that I'll even contact her tomorrow, or even this weekend at all.I'm deeply hurt by what's happening with my mom.Talking to the girl during this would be awfully painful. Just make things worse. Stay tuned (if you're interested). But, again, good for me!