Went to a bar tonight. (I dislike bars, but there was a specific party I wanted to go to.) The woman I was talking to could not relate at all to my not being interested in drinking.It hurt, as usual. Plus, she, and then the woman sitting next to her, wore low shirts.Like... do you purposely WANT people to stare?Do you understand that they're going to do that? It makes me very mad, because it's like a tease. ----Hoping for patience...
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They know... people know. That\'s just the way the culture is. I look at it this way... you can accept it or you can abhor it. You can sleep with the next girl that comes along or wait. Life is a series of choices. You don\'t have to understand why people choose what they do, but you need to respect it. They are seeking attention, and their directive is being met. Just my two cents. Hope your world is well.
Thanks :-).
Yes...... I\'m working on the respect part.
I think it will come with my feeling secure about something on my end.
On an analytical level, though, what I don\'t understand is why a woman would expose her cleavage if she doesn\'t want to be sexually involved with someone. If you don\'t want to be, wouldn\'t you keep it covered?
That\'s what I don\'t comprehend.
Perspective from anyone?