If ANYONE can understand this!: Excerpts from a personality test I took on Yahoo a while back (the boldface is mine)..."For you, falling in love is like being reunited with the other part of yourself that finally gives meaning to everything in your life. [...] The downside of the Destined love style is that you typically have to search for years and years (and go on lots of bad dates) to find this type of love. Destiny is on your side, but doesn't always follow your timeline."