Thank you to the person-- you know who you are-- who reminded me of the things I HAVEN'T had to contend with in not having sex: fears of pregnancy, STD's, and emotional turmoil from sex.That really helps... to be reminded of what I already know :-).This may sound funny, but I am completely serious.To those on this site who want to help me, it would be great to give me alternate, more positive ways of looking at things when I have negative thoughts :-).I can't wat to get out of the depression I'm in, so that I just feel happier and am emotionally healthier and can appreciate deeper things more. And feel more free...At that time, I hope I can offer more to others by way of support/encouragement/motivation than I'm able to now.