i have 2 days off of work coming up, and my friend who just had a baby wants me to come over and visit with them. at first i was kind of hesitant, but i really want to be there for here, because if i were alone with a baby all of the time i would eventaully want to see my friends come over too! today has been one of those days that i wake up and dont know how im feeling. im not upset or anything but im not happy. i guess i can just try to think positive!!!
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Your loss is still so recent, be prepared. This visit with your friend and her baby may bring up unresolved feelings. It may be harder than you think to see them. The first time I saw my friends baby after my loss, I broke down. I hope it all goes well. Goodluck.
I hope it goes well, goodluck.
Do be prepared. But don\'t avoid her and the baby. Maybe you can kind of use it as therepy. I to was pregnant with my friend, only I lost the baby and avoided pretty much all contact, I even bought her stuff for her baby shower and couldn\'t even bring myself to go. I regret that now.
yeah... i actually went to the hospital when she was born and i was laughing and smiling, but it was difficult...although i was glad i went.