It's been a while

its been a while since i wrote a journal and there is so much i have to let out, i dont even know where to begin, so lets start with whats bothering me most right now, my daughter, the one i joined this site in search of help for, seems to be getting better and worse at the same time the initially diagnosed her with aspergers, but now they are adjusting her diagnosis and meds because they are saying its more on the bipolar end,   so i have been having a hard time at home, my soon to be ex wife still wont listen to reason and get on the same page with me or should i say both of us cant seem to get on the same page, because like when we were living in same house she does nothing wrong,   yet my 13 year old will calling her every name in the book and she does not ground her, i hold my daughter accountable and i am in the wrong, i cant syand fighting with my ex over stuff that well she should know i texted her the other day that her and i need to talk about this and get on the same page befre my daughter drives a wedge between her and her bf.  Thats all for now i have to vent more later about everything else