matt called me about an hour ago. i was so glad to hear from him. just wish he was here with me. i talked to his step mom today. she said they were flying out for his graduation from basic training in october. matt asked me if i could come but i really dont think i can handel the plane ride! ive never flown before! im really scared too b/c what if i get too nervous b4 i go? i dont want that stress of being so scared to make me sick like i used to get when something big was going to happen. i want to go see him but i dont want to get sick and nervous around him and i dont want his family to see me like that b/c idk if they really knew i was sick and nervous around him before he left. what do you guys think i should do?
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hey I\'m glad I stopped by. I was also afraid of flying before the first time I ever flew was from Jax FL to JAPAN! But flying is SO MUCH fun, I love it now. Hope that helps. It also helps that I was 21 and I had a few rum and diet cokes before I went. Just a few though. Congrats on your anniversary. My advice : GO TO HIS GRADUATION. If you don\'t you will regret it later. I went to my wife\'s grad in Illinois and she came to mine years later in Texas. Where does the Army grad from?
Flyings no big deal..it\'ll mean alot if you go for him!!
Talk to your doctor and ask if he can prescribe you two or three valium, to take during the flight there and back. Don\'t let anxiety hold you back from seeing his graduation. You\'ll always regret it. And we have to fight anxiety or it starts to control your life.