I feel like no one cares what we are going through and what we have gone through Ric. Your family didn't even send their best when I attended your inquest; they didn't want to go. They haven't even called to see how it went. Your sister sheepishly txt well done, you can't change things, it wasn't about changing things, it was about you and being there supporting you, which they didn't. I find it really bad and it hurts. Nobody cares.

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Tears are flowing after reading your post. Unfortunately, most people (including family) do not understand the depth of the pain we are feeling. I too wonder why my husband\'s sisters are not as supportive as I thought they would be since my husband and I have always been there for them during difficult times. None of them have lost their husband\'s, so I try to tell myself that is the reason why they can\'t relate, but on the other hand, you don\'t have to relate to the pain to have some compassion for the hurting. You will grow spiritually from this horrible loss. Talk to Ric as often as possible, he is there for you, you can\'t hear him or touch him, but he is there and God is not far away either-- They care! Trust that you are being supported from above.

May God bless you and give you peace. Hugs!
Connie
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My heart is with you. You have been in my prayers. While I was looking at the vastness of the creation of the ocean, you were in my heart. I have learned through the years that people will disappoint, we are human. And the disappointment was very hurtful. There is only one person who will never disappoint us and that is The Lord Jesus Christ. HE is with us when we do not even sense HIS presence. HE knows what we go through even before we go through it. Just know that God\'s Love Never Fails. Human love does fail. You are in my prayers. The Lord Bless You and Your Son and Keep You Both. Bunches of Hugs to you and pass them onto your son also.
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