I am feeling truly terrible today. I keep thinking what is the point in anything because you aren't here Ric. Nobody really cares, nobody calls anymore, they've all gone back to their lives, and even if they did care, it doesn't matter cos I still can't have you here back with us where you belong. This is the true pain of my loss. I love you Ric and always will xxx
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I feel the same way almost every day. Sometimes I feel so disappointed that the people my husband was closest to when he was alive have disappeared from my life now that he is not here. It\'s hard not to feel that they don\'t care, because if the personal contact makes them uneasy, there is always e-mail and mail, facebook etc. All I need is a little bit of compassion -- which can be demonstrated in small ways without picking up the phone. Although, you don\'t know me and I don\'t know you, we are bonded by our pain and I wish you peace and a bit of comfort in knowing that I and many other widows on this site care. We have to find comfort and support wherever we can find it. We need to express our feelings in order to heal. Hugs! Connie