I don't really want to become a hateful person. I am a beautiful person inside and I don't want to give him one tiny little piece of that beauty. He's a selfish, immature person. He always turns it around to him if someone else is suffering. It's always "you don't think I hurt" "You don't think I miss all that" ""you don't think Im having a hard time" blah blah blah. Tried to tell him he can't take our pain cause he thinks he owns it all. Such a poor baby!! He can have the pain cause I don't want it. And I hope it swallows him up and one day he wakes up and thinks "what the hell did I do to my family?" The therapist told me he will eventually be consumed with guilt over the things he has done to me the last 27 years. And that guilt will be his downfall.