back home again after out of town work. I did connect with my counselor before I left and I have appointment for Tuesday. first time I see him by myself. We always went as a couple. But I did tell him what I have said and done so far and he is very pleased with me. Glad to hear that. I def need to see him tho as I am filled with something. Just not sure what. BuT I feel comfortable as he knows the situation and has counseled both of us so he knows history. I can only hope it works. He is good and digs until you open up. Thats what i liked about him for my lying husband. He ticked him off quite a few time. lol He wants to talk to me then decide if he should call the ex. His call on that. I'm going for me.