new to this so not sure what I am doing. I have recently separated from hubby of 27 years. Actually we separated once last year got back together for 6 months and he left again. Not sure what the reason is again. Wait I guess I do. He says he just wasnt happy. Lots of things have gone down in the last 6 years. He lost a sister, his mother then his brother. He have repeatedly cheated on me. We have 2 adult sons and both have written him off. I know everyone tells me to kick him to the curb but for some reason it's hard to do. He says he is seeking counseling (we both attended but lost it when he lost insurance thru company) to figure out why or what is making him do what he does. Doesn't want to rush into divorce yet but asks to give him time. I told him not to come back because he is not good for my health and I need time to refind me. But I need someone to talk to. I have dropped all contact with him.