Wow.. It just fit me today how much stress I 'm feeling right now, I haven't felt like this in a long time,to update x came by last Thursday to let me know he was going to let house go into foreclosure or force the sell, It was part of our agreement in 2005 that I would be able to stay in house until 2011 when son graduates He makes house pymt which I sold to him losing  $25,000 in equity so he could get the financing he needed to keep us here ujntil 2011  X had at whole lot more $ last year. then when we made agreement, My son who is 14 is not speaking to his Dad over this and I don't blame him My x actualluy told me I should explain to son that it was just something that can't be help, it out of his control, I refuse as it could  have avoided , he went to Paris he goes golfing at $ 250.00 to $400.00 a round he is always going out to dinner, he supplies his girlfriend with a Mercedes, drives a new truck , but can't stick to his commitment to son to keep in this house. He going to get it KARMA is on my side and things will work out I have to find a way to release some of this stress, tired , neck hurts , can't conentrate, and worst off the littlest things bug me. so tommorrow I will tackle 2 rooms of house from top to bottom as being pyshical seems to help. Feel sorry for son he seems to be suffering the brunt of all this not only from Dad but from me, trust me I trying to be very aware of myself nad step back  alot.. So Good night All sleep well,..