How do I get off this ride??? X just picked up son again they are going to the beach,  which could be great except that he's also taking his poker buddies, which means they'll will be drinking profusely, not watching the kids, the beach they are going to "the wedge" in Newport,CA is not a safe beach just to hang out in. He also just informed me he doesn't know when they will get back maybe Sunday maybe Monday. He was supposed to have him back on the 1st. I can deal with that, I guess I'm just really worried about son having to deal with a bunch of drunks, and not having away to escape it. I want to protect him from X behavior, please let him be OK..