Hey Buddy, Happy Holiday!!!!! We can only express what we allow to come to the surface. Sometimes the pain and trauma of life leave us impotent. I call it thought constipation.
I know I preach a lot, but sometimes we just have to love ourselves right where we are, no matter how sad, or how shitty. Just embrace who you are, because my friend I assure you that in the eyes of God you are a perfect and precious being worthy of pure and unconditional love. Think about it, I have never met you, yet I love you and care about you, and so do your children and I\'m sure many others.
It is actually work to change your thoughts, and to seek healing. There are so many times I say F it, and I slide and disrespect myself. Then I say that is what I did, now I am going to do something different. No guilt trips, no shame, just accepting that I am human and worthy of happiness.
Take care bro........xoxo Rebecca
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Hey Buddy, Happy Holiday!!!!! We can only express what we allow to come to the surface. Sometimes the pain and trauma of life leave us impotent. I call it thought constipation.
I know I preach a lot, but sometimes we just have to love ourselves right where we are, no matter how sad, or how shitty. Just embrace who you are, because my friend I assure you that in the eyes of God you are a perfect and precious being worthy of pure and unconditional love. Think about it, I have never met you, yet I love you and care about you, and so do your children and I\'m sure many others.
It is actually work to change your thoughts, and to seek healing. There are so many times I say F it, and I slide and disrespect myself. Then I say that is what I did, now I am going to do something different. No guilt trips, no shame, just accepting that I am human and worthy of happiness.
Take care bro........xoxo Rebecca
That\'s really sound advice from rcoco. I can\'t really add anything except to say that you\'re in my thoughts too.