2 weeks from last discovery
Starting to feel less affection for cheating husband. Not going through all the daily motions of regular life this time, whereas on past times I couldn't imagine changing anything about ouR life or habits.I clung to him and our habits. I admit it is VERY boring, and I struggle to fill time, especially since I can't even shop and spend money since I will be cutting back financially Due to this, even if it is only separation. As I suspected, he is busier than me, as he has always had a good friend group, and enjoys bars. he sill has sad face and asks me to do things with him, and I sometimes give in, but it feels wrong. For instance last night he had out of town family in town, and he was meeting them out. They don't know of our problems, but I said no, consist st, but them my girlfriend plans fell through and I needed up going. I felt uneasy. I don't know how to act with him. I refuse to act as though nothing is wrong.
its been 2 weeks since last discovery, and he still does not have apartment. Then it will really be the test, when I don't see him every day. Not sure how well ill do emotionally then.
its been 2 weeks since last discovery, and he still does not have apartment. Then it will really be the test, when I don't see him every day. Not sure how well ill do emotionally then.
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Well clearly time for him not to expect him to act \"normally\" around family, friends, or anyone for that matter. YOu need not keep his sick secrets any more, lest you betray yourself, and get yourself emotionally ill, and a huge wreck! Why should you do what he requests, when he sure as hell can reciprocate in the most important aspect of a marriage. He wants all from you, and to defend him, like you are his macho buddy, and he should go along his merry life??? Really??? Too many expectations of you, in my book, and he can\'t even have one expectation placed on him, honor it, and follow thru with fidelity! Very double-standard based, very unfair, and very selfish, yes even borders narcissistic behavior!
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for h im not to expect of you to act \"normally\"
when he sure as hell CAN\'T reciprocate