2 Steps Forward......10 Steps Back

Just when I think I am getting ahead I get thrown right back in the shit..Barely surviveing with my head above water.Our van was on its last legs and wouldn't pass inspection so I made the very hard decision to get another vehicle.I knew the car payment alone was gonna be hard but didn't take into account the car insurance going up by 130.00  a month then to really kick me while I was down ..my husbands SSI check got cut by 160.00 because our daughter turned 18.Well that's just great since we are still takeing care of her and her son...Still fighting with the soon to be 25 year old to just pay rent or get the hell out....Seems I am the only one who always stresses over everything...So afraid of having a heart attack.Everything seems like more than I can handle.I was deemed disabled after a car crash so its not like I can just go back to working non stop. I just feel so alone,stressed and depressed.