One Day at a time!

I am working so hard at simply taking one day at a time. I miss Cory and Matt and think of them alot but each day I remind myself of the damage she did to me. I remind myself of the lies, the betrayal from her and my former friend... thats what gives me the strength to move on.
I am trying to look forward to a day when she no longer matters to my heart. I just hope that day comes sooner than later. Today, I had a few memories of her and it caused me to lose my train of thought for a few minutes... I did get it together though and continued on....
I find myself hoping that her new man shows his true colors soon. I am filled with so much anger towards them I just want them to feel a bit of what I went through...
I shouldn't think like that but I do...
Jim

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deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

i hear ya... I dont; know if my ex is dating again.. but lately I was hoping things were tough over christmas/new years/his birthday ... that isnt even like me but I\'m just really hoping it so he can at least feel the loss that I feel

you know the way you said you remind yourself of the betrayals etc is exactly in line with this website I found on dealing with a broken heart by a psychologist (or someone).. he actually makes you visualize a few of your worst memories and see them like a super fast 5second film over the top of the best memories you had... and it really helped. I have to say it took away the intense I can\'t deal with this feeling..

It sounds like you made a quicker rebound today...every little victory counts!
deleted_user
deleted_user

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deleted_user
deleted_user

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deleted_user
deleted_user

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