LIFE
WELL DOES LIFE ONLY GET WORSE I REALLY DOWN. MY SON FOR GOT MY BIRTHDAY,MY HUSBAND FOR GOT OUR ANNERVERS, WHATS NEXT THERE FOR GET I EVEN AM ALIVE, WELL THAT'S LIFE RIGHT, LOVE TO ME IS THINKING OF THE OTHER PEOPLE FIRST MAKING THERE LIFE EASIER, REMEMBERING THOSE SPECIAL DAYS, WELL WHAT DOES THAT TELL ME, WE ALL KNOW, I JUST DO NOT UNDERSTAND, I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND, WISH I WOULD DISSAPEAR, SORRY HAVING BAD DAY, BUT I DO LOVE YOU ALL ,EVEN IF I AM NOT LOVED BACK. PLEASE NO PITY PARTY, I HAVE SERVISED THE WORST,LOSING MY DAUGHTER SO I CAN STILL STAY STRONG, HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEK END AND LOVE THE ONE WHO LOVE YOU.
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You\'re going to be alright Shirley. God is watching over you.
Brad
Oh Shirley sweetheart, please try not to dispare i,v had similar situations and i know how hurtful it can be. You are loved, you are so very much loved, you have been there for me and il always be here for you, just think of the trips we are going to take, yourl get your rewards in heaven one day, when you see your Denise again. Keep strong we need you, love susie xx
Yes you have survived the worse thing that could every happen to any mother, losing your sweet Denise.
Men do not remember dates. I had to remind both my husband and my son on the first anniversary of Jason death. I don\'t believe it\'s that they don\'t love you, they are just men.
Love to you and your family and especially to Denise. Terry
Share and get it all out. That is the best therapy I have found to help us cope and survive.
Gentle ((hugs))
:-) Patricia
Shirley, I am so sorry you are feeling forgotten and unloved. You are precious to many people on this site and a gift of new life. Know I hold you in my heart and prayers.
Terry, please don\'t make Shirley\'s pain and suffering be about gender - I am a man who has also experienced a great deal of loss and live with a great deal of pain and suffering from chronic disease, and I have walked beside Shirley and many others in the midst of grief - so I find your comment \"they are just men\" to be very hurtful and unhelpful, in fact it gives those particular men permission to continue acting inappropriately toward Shirley and towards you.
Hey Shirley...I think that everyone is so severely rattled that those important days are even forgotten. It takes a while to slowly build back a life that feels worth living...so please know that it takes time. We want to feel better immediately and that is impossible. We have to go through things in our head and heart a hundred times...and somewhere along the way things become a bit more manageable. You can find happiness and joy again...it is just a long process. It is such a long process because it is the worst thing that can happen to us...so please remember to take it one moment at a time...love and gentle hugs...Karen
I am ditto-ing karen (she is one smart lady!) We are with you and love you.
Hugs, MaryLou