I added Scott's Sr. pic tonight. (Sun.) This was taken not too long after his 1st car accident. Anyway, I had previously mentioned the cross on the barn wall by his left arm. After 3 years I recently noticed it after asking him to give me a sign of some sort. Adam had never noticed it either. I carry this photo in my wallet and it is on display in my living room. Today when I visited the cemetery I asked him again. When I finally got home tonight I had a load of laundry to put in the dryer. On top of the dryer was a drawing he had done in 7th grade. It was a sketch of a females face. Maybe me, I don't know. Anyway, I have no idea how that drawing got there or even where it was. There is a file cabinet by my dryer and maybe I pulled something out a few days ago, although I don't remember doing that, and the drawing fell out then. I have stuff on top of my dryer so I might not have noticed. Or, maybe it was truly a sign from him. It all makes me crazy. I want so badly to know that he is more than just plain dead. My faith has been so badly shaken. But maybe.....
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I believe that it WAS a sign from Scott. I looked at your new photo and thought what a beautiful boy he is. That body is gone now, but Scott is still alive, only in a different form. It is we, who are left behind, that find it hard to accept the signs that we are sent. Of that I am sure, although i grieve terribly, as do you. Feel me giving you a big hug, as I wish I could. You are a wonderful person. Nina also worked with autistic children, adults and their parents. She just loved them to pieces. Thank you for all your support. It has meant a great deal to me. I am trying to send support to you, as we both know what a dreadful time this is. Lots of love from Anne xxx
dont doubt it. they give us many things to let us know. as freud said \"there are no coincidences or accidents in the universe.\" hugs, marianne
I think it was a sign from your son. I know what you are saying about the faith thing. I don\'t have much trust in it either, but I\'m trying hard to keep whatever I have left. Take Care, Love and Hugs.
I understand...it is normal to question whether something is a sign or not...is it coincidence or from our child? I choose to accept that it is from Alex...if I am wrong...what difference does it make...if it brings me comfort...if it gives me hope...it is good. I think that in time...we will truly believe again...we must be patient...we have been through so much...for heavens sake we have lost our precious children...hang in there my friend...Love and hugs...Karen
I have waited for 3 months for some kind of sign with no result. Other friends of mine tell me of all the things they see, butterflies, hummingbirds, pennies. I get nothing. I look but maybe not hard enough. I envy you. Jackie