Gotta love dss. My daughter says she can’t handle the baby. So I put her in daycare. Biomom won’t get a job, says she cant. If she’s left with kids she calls me freaking out, so I have to pay for daycare. I already have custody of her almost 3yo son, due to prior neglect/abuse. I called DSS because every time I tell her to get a job and get her act together or get out, she threatens to take gd to go live with her druggy friends. Dss says IM the caretaker, since I take her to daycare. Therefore they wont get involved. They actually stated,Since I take her to daycare,I am the caretaker, I’m the one responsible to make sure she isn’t abused or neglected. If I leave her in an unsafe environment,(with her mother)I am responsible. Since I am protecting her, they won't get involved. So, she keeps custody, I remain a hostage. If I stop protecting her, I can be held responsibe, since I am her caretaker............. I am not sure how much more I can deal with. I am mad all the time. I am full of a burning rage at that daughter. I want her out, but she doesnt care. Last night she had a stomping fit because the baby was fussing and didnt want to go to bed. I held her until she fell asleep. I dreamed of fighting with her all night, I dreamed I told her be gone in 1 week.I woke up to get the kids ready for daycare. biomom was dragging her feet and telling me to leave her alone. I told her to get a job, we argued some more. she has missed her 2cd and 3rd psy appt and not scheduled another, says she cant prove income. Always an excuse why she cant get a job or go to therapy. I don't know how long I can live with the rage, I am constantly on the verge of tears. I am a hostage in my house, I am full of rage and frustration and hopelessness.