Hi DS friends, I have been really distracted by the stbx and dealing with my chilhood abuse for the first time and then dealing with my divorce and the bathroom "incident" on top of it. I can't come to terms on why men abuse or why they are so sick and twisted. I feel like I might never trust anyone again. I start reading all the "disscussions" on this site of girls who were molested by their own fathers and I want to vomit. I am outraged how much abuse is going on. I want to do something about it. I want to help other people and survivors. It is just so confusing on WHY someone would do that to a child? What is WRONG with these people? Is there no common sense or moral code?
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There is a defect in their brain somewhere! Some people are just sick. I think it is great that you want to help people though. Just don\'t forget to take care of you!!!
Hugs to you sweet,wonderful lady!
Jenny
xoxo
Unfortunately, it all ties in. My mother was mentally ill, so I married a nut. Now from what I found on the computer I have strong reason to believe that he was abused sexually as a child. They were some lyrics he wrote about it and I was beginning to suspect something over the last few years. I had begged to get help, but for a man to admit this is very difficult I guess. Still this is not a reason for him to abuse his wife.