I am mad.Some guy on another site added me as a friend and then got mad because I was in the middle of something and coudn't respond right away.When I did he had already deleted me as a friend which is a good thing because he's a jerk.What I am mad about is that he triggered memories of my abusive first husband that I would rather not think about.In those few words that that jerk said I could tell just what kind of person he is and I don't need that and don't want it.I have met someone anyway but there's no reason why a man and a woman can't be just friends if they want to.It's not my fault that that guy can't read.I specifically say in my profile on the other site that I am not looking for a man to date.I say that I am just on the site for friends only.The guy has a hair style that is stuck in the 70s anyway.LOL!!!!
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He doesn\'t sound like anyone I\'d want to be friends with. Glad you lost that loser.
don\'t let other peoples actions control your emotions. Choose your mood, your thoughts, and your responses. What he did is passive aggressive behavior. It really does not affect you in any way.
This stuff, the triggers, the anger... its a viscous circle. Step out of the circle of (insanity)
Then when you are out of the circle, prayerfully think about it. Prepare your heart,
then when you feel safe, when you have boundaries,
step back in and stay in control.
You are Loved.
Brother Frankie