I met someone I really started to like but then he asked me if I would have his baby.That scares me away.My kids are almost grown but the main reason I don't want to get pregnant again is the medications I'm on.I don't want to put my child at risk for any type of birth defects brought on from my meds.If that sounds selfish,I'm sorry but I can't do that to a child and I'm not willing to risk losing my stability if I go off my meds.I feel like I made the right choice.I don't mean to sound selfish but this is the way that I feel.

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hi there i would never even consider living with a guy, i go out with chris but i have decedided nvever to live with him, my kids need me first
so glad i cant have kids i am too old too at 42
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Hi Joybells, Sorry but if someone asked me to have his baby after such a short time, I\'d run a mile, Good for you.You\'re not selfish, just sensible, good on you. Valxxx