My husband figured it out on his own that I'm leaving.I didn't say anything to him until today when he asked me flat out.When he asked me I told him.Now he knows everything but it doesn't change anything for him.He still isn't willing to change.By saying that he knows everything it means that I made it clear that I am leaving.He seems to be ok with it.I'm taking things one day at a time.That's the only thing I can do right now.