Well,I tried to give my husband a chance to follow through with his promise to me but he failed to keep it so I am leaving.I won't live with his addiction.He was just telling me what I wanted to hear thinking that I'd belive him.I knew deep inside that he was lying to me but I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt.I caught him looking and porn once again.He was just telling me what I wanted to hear to get me off his back.I hate being lied to.What's left if you don't have trust?
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You are write get out. When he is gone to work get all you personal stuff out jewelry letters pictures scrapbooks. Get an attorney and do what ever they say. If you cant get out for a while start writing checks for $10-25 over the amount and squirrel away the cash. Make sure that there is a 3 county thing in your divorce neither of you can take the kids further then 3 counties away. Make sure you get the kids, really screw him on the porn,you computer can be used as evidenve ecause even if he erases it it is stilll there. Try and steall one of those things you said he has when the computer is down. No split custody. Look you best for all attorney visits. hey!!! To be free of such scum!!! You deserve so muchbetter for you and your kids!!!! happy happy
Oh darling x
I do so know where your at right now. I have been there. Trust is something not to be given free. He has to earn trust & as he dont think he has a problem your on a no win there. I still dont trust my husband....however he no longer does the porn, he has bought a laptop instead of going on the one in the study. He only goes on the laptop with me siting next to him (thats what he wants). He knew when I took him back it could take a long time to mend our 22 years together. But with him it wasnt just the porn !!!
We have three children that he almost lost because of his **** ? I do pray you can sort this out together. I know its hard, every day is a battle, just be strong. My love to you. XXX